The first step

We all want things in our life. We all have desires, aspirations, dreams and ambitions but how do we get what we really want? Is there a roadmap or plan to take us there? And if there is, what's the first step?

I think the first step to getting everything you want in your life, all the freedom, independence, love, adventure, happiness and joy comes when you answer one simple question:

          How do you want to feel?

How do you want to feel?


It sounds so simple and straightforward but I'll bet many of you have never really asked yourself that question.

So do it now. Ask yourself: "how do i want to feel?"

And when you answer, don't give an intellectual answer, don't answer with your mind. Answer with your inner being, your soul, your higher power, whatever you want to call it.

No Fate

You make your own fate - all of it, from the micro to the macro. You impel the visions created in your mind towards you.

The speed at which your reality is created is based on three things:

1. how you feel
2. how much you believe
3. how much you can control your thoughts

If you can do these three things: feel great and amazing about yourself and your current  reality, believe deeply and passionately that your future has already arrived, and think only good thoughts, you will make all of your dreams come true at warp speed.

It happens to me all the time. Yesterday I decided I wanted something in my life that had eluded me up until now. It was based on a thought that my partner put but had never discussed with me. We talked. And so the the impulse to create this was born. But to bring this about we needed a certain person back in our life.

And it just came about. It came about because I felt good about it, I knew it would happen very soon and I controlled all my thinking to make it happen. So when that person connected with me, I wasn't surprised in the least. It wasn't that I "predicted" it, I just knew and believed that it was already a reality, and voila!